tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post4760509328749136835..comments2024-03-25T15:16:59.631-04:00Comments on The Green Bough: When The Great Grief Cry Is AnsweredOriahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153842083329682011noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post-8986577549633480152017-11-19T19:27:00.820-05:002017-11-19T19:27:00.820-05:00Thank youThank youAnne melnicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post-61879631995845829582017-11-19T19:24:57.616-05:002017-11-19T19:24:57.616-05:00Hi there
Marriages dissolving ...dark heavy energy...Hi there<br />Marriages dissolving ...dark heavy energy...yes. I was in the 50s life phase and felt exactly as you describe it.<br />What I can honestly tell you is ...it is not going to last ...somehow you do . A trust does begin to rise you up daily as it may be the tiniest peace in you listening to a bird sing a sunrise and this place in you trusting every step ...looking from where you are looking,not from anywhere else out there but from what hears the bird sing the wind rustle the leaves . You will feel relief and space ...rest in this as this often ...lie down on your bed the ground and let it lift you on your feet to shine on. You are not lost nor alone in this and as you can speak so far you already are sending your core being knowing you're ok somehow and it's ok to be ...you are ...there are many people speaking on Balanced View all over the world ..it's on line..coming through these great changes. People of all ages all the videos and assistence are freeAnne melnicknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post-37812976387170033292017-11-15T20:35:59.384-05:002017-11-15T20:35:59.384-05:00Claudia, Would love to hear from you as things beg...Claudia, Would love to hear from you as things begin to change. You can always email me at mail@oriah.org Much love and many blessings, OriahOriahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153842083329682011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post-48878140417304331422017-11-15T16:57:32.308-05:002017-11-15T16:57:32.308-05:00Thank you Oriah. I believe your words for now as ...Thank you Oriah. I believe your words for now as I can't believe my thoughts. <br /><br />I am making it to the end of the day so far, and it is different to see it as success. <br /><br />You bring a very good point, maybe I don't need to be the super person my mind says I am failing at being. Maybe just taking care and making it to the end of one day, today, is enough.<br /><br />I will practice this.<br /><br />I will write when things change.<br /><br />Love<br /><br />Claudiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06609779915009954933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post-47516150422099921872017-11-15T12:41:25.271-05:002017-11-15T12:41:25.271-05:00Claudia, I am so sorry you are going through such ...Claudia, I am so sorry you are going through such pain. I will tell you what has helped me when the pain is extreme and no end is in sight. What I know for sure is that this will change- because all things do. You ONLY job right now, us ti keep breathing, to stay here- so that when changes come you will be here for them and be able to create a new life. I have had times when it helped me to get that my job was to stay alive- and to use anything that was not self-destructive that would help me stay alive. So, I went for a long slow walk, or watched a movie that engaged me or listened to a podcast that entertained me. And I counted as "success" arriving at the end of the day still here. I think that when we are in despair the mind starts racing ahead, wondering what will happen next week, next year. It helps to stay here, now- this breath. Also, working with a therapist that can be companion in the grief, can help a great deal(it helped me immeasurably)- and I would urge you to find someone (and sometimes we have to try a few folks until we find one who is a fit for us.) Sending prayers. May you be gentle with yourself and let yourself be here. It will change. Sending love and prayers, oriahOriahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13153842083329682011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3524364334037666877.post-8396951649644809112017-11-15T12:16:11.475-05:002017-11-15T12:16:11.475-05:00It is reassuring to hear you felt relief, right no...It is reassuring to hear you felt relief, right now I am convinced that God has abandoned me, there is simply nowhere to turn, the rock is in my face, as per the poem.<br /><br />The little energy I gather is gone before 10 AM, the depression and devastation of the end of my own marriage, in the brutal way in which it was broken, left me shivering, broken and undone.<br /><br />I read the poem and re-read it.<br /><br />You be the master: make yourself fierce, break in<br /><br />I am out of ideas of where to look for help. Borderline cynical, trust-less, craving death.<br /><br />your great transforming power. Why is it taking so long. <br /><br />Is there pleasure in "your" power to see me struggle? trembling naked, crying in the bathroom at work?<br /><br />Does the pain really need to be this big?<br /><br />Can it end?<br /><br />Claudiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06609779915009954933noreply@blogger.com